Couple's Therapy: 

Women most men go through that playa stage. Some of us stay there. However, women can inspire us to become something more, if in fact she is intriguing enough to him. 

This article is twofold, it is a how to guide for men to come out of the playa stage, and a confirmation guide for women to recognize the changes he makes. 

Read it here:

http://shymagazine.com/shy/9-changes-men-should-make-to-make-a-relationship-successful.html